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疯子老头。

合适，真的比爱重要

爱得死去活来的恋人，在老辈人看来，多半不宜走入婚姻，所谓“深爱不寿”。

年轻时，很容易被“我们很相爱”感动，慢慢经历了一些事情，对于相爱这事儿多少存了一点疑心。如今，倘若一对男女决定在一起，我更希望听到他们自信满满地说，我们在一起，真的很合适。

不久前，遇到大学同学。他曾与我的室友爱得轰轰烈烈，死去活来，毕业后，他们却分手了。忍不住打听分手原因，他倒也坦然，直言两人在一起不合适。他如今的太太是一个小职员，典型的贤妻良母。如今，他功成名就，她则甘愿做配角。我的确无法想象，我那位室友，如今同样功成名就的女强人，能够为了哪一个男人，而放弃自己的追求。

在爱情中，惺惺相惜最重要，而婚姻考验...

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